In every classroom, kids are learning more than math and reading. They’re learning how to be in community with others—how to take turns, share space, speak up, and sometimes, how to reach out even when it’s uncomfortable.
One of the most meaningful social-emotional lessons we can teach is how to include others, not just when it’s easy, but especially when it’s hard. Whether students are navigating friendship cliques, peer pressure, or just unfamiliarity, they need tools and support to practice compassion and inclusion with courage.
In this article, we’ll explore how to build an inclusive classroom environment, how to talk about the importance of including others, and how to help students build the emotional resilience to extend kindness, even in moments of tension or discomfort.
Why Inclusion Isn’t Always Easy—for Adults or Kids
When we talk about inclusion, it’s important to name the reality: kids sometimes struggle to include others because they’re trying to figure out where they belong.
Exclusion might show up as:
- Ignoring someone different
- Leaving classmates out of games or group work
- Going along with a clique to avoid being excluded themselves
These behaviors don’t mean kids are unkind. They often mean they’re navigating their uncertainty and doing their best to fit in. That’s why creating inclusive cultures in classrooms means teaching not just the what of inclusion, but the how and the why.
What Is an Inclusive Learning Environment?
An inclusive learning environment is a space where every student feels valued, safe, and supported, regardless of their background, ability, identity, or experience. In these spaces:
- Differences are celebrated, not tolerated
- Students are taught to speak up for one another, not over one another
- Teachers model inclusive practices in how they speak, lead, and guide conflict
At Soul Shoppe, our work is rooted in inclusive classroom strategies that give children the language and tools to choose connection over division.
Values-Based Teaching: Including Others Starts from Within
When it comes to helping kids include others, it’s not just about changing behavior. It’s about growing character. That’s why we teach from a values-based approach—centering around empathy, responsibility, and kindness.
A few simple ways to root inclusion in your classroom values:
- Create a class agreement together that includes how you treat people who feel left out
- Talk openly about fairness, friendship, and listening across differences
- Share stories (real or fictional) where someone chose to include others, and what happened as a result
This builds an inclusive culture in schools from the inside out—not by rules, but by relationships.
Inclusive Strategies in the Classroom That Make a Difference
Ready to make it real for students? These inclusive strategies in the classroom are powerful starting points.
1. Practice Circle Time Conversations About Inclusion
Use open-ended questions like:
- “When have you felt left out? How did it feel?”
- “What’s something kind someone did for you that made you feel included?”
- “What can we do when we see someone sitting alone or being left out?”
This opens the door for vulnerability and empathy-building.
2. Model and Celebrate Moments of Inclusion
When you see students including others, name it out loud:
- “I noticed you invited her into your group. That shows kindness and leadership.”
- “You let him take a turn even though you didn’t know him well—that’s what community looks like.”
Naming these actions reinforces an inclusive classroom environment through affirmation, not correction.
3. Create Safe Ways for Kids to Speak Up
Sometimes, including others means standing up to a friend. Give students tools to navigate this through role-play and scripts like:
- “Let’s make room for them, too.”
- “I think we should all get a turn.”
- “I feel better when we don’t leave people out.”
This fosters peer-led inclusion and challenges peer pressure in healthy ways.
Activities to Help Kids Include Others
Try these simple classroom culture-building activities that focus on connection and collaboration:
- Partner Switch Ups: Regularly rotate seating or group work so students practice engaging with different classmates
- Compliment Chains: Pass a compliment from one student to the next, encouraging noticing and naming others’ strengths
- “Who’s Not Here Yet?” Game: In group games or class activities, ask students to scan the room and invite anyone not yet included
Each of these is a small but meaningful way to teach what it means to be part of a shared community.
Inclusion Is Emotional Work—SEL Helps Guide the Way
Choosing to include someone can take courage. That’s where social emotional learning makes the biggest impact. When students learn how to name their feelings, navigate discomfort, and care about others, inclusion becomes more than a rule—it becomes a natural response.
Programs like Soul Shoppe’s Tools of the Heart teach emotional awareness and give students language for conflict, empathy, and communication. These tools create space for even the hardest conversations, like when a student feels left out or when a group realizes they have excluded someone unintentionally.
Creating the Culture, Every Day
Inclusion doesn’t happen in one lesson. It’s built day by day, in classroom routines, hallway greetings, partner projects, and recess choices.
When we teach kids how to include others—even when it’s uncomfortable—we’re showing them how to live their values. How to be brave and kind at the same time. How to shape a world that makes room for everyone.
And that starts with us.
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Every child will face a moment when they feel like giving up. Whether it’s struggling to solve a math problem, trying to make a new friend, or missing the mark on a goal they cared about, setbacks can feel heavy. And in those moments, what they need most isn’t pressure to push harder—it’s support, reflection, and encouragement to keep going.
That’s where teaching perseverance comes in. It’s not about powering through at all costs. It’s about helping kids recognize their feelings, reframe the challenge, and rediscover their inner strength, with guidance from the caring adults around them.
In this article, we’ll explore strategies for teaching perseverance to kids, offer activities and games to keep motivation alive, and share how Soul Shoppe’s Elementary SEL Curriculum, such as Tools of the Heart, supports students as they build resilience, one step at a time.
Why Perseverance Matters
When we discuss perseverance for kids, we’re talking about more than just grit. We’re talking about confidence, emotional stamina, and the belief that trying again is always worth it.
Through social emotional learning, students begin to understand that mistakes are part of learning and that effort is something to be proud of. The result? A generation of learners who feel empowered, not discouraged, by life’s challenges.
What Perseverance Looks Like in Real Life
To a student, perseverance might sound like:
- “I didn’t get it the first time, but I’ll keep trying.”
- “This is hard, but I can ask for help.”
- “I felt like giving up, but I took a break and came back to it.”
These small moments are huge—and they’re often sparked by a teacher’s patience or a classmate’s encouragement.
If you’re wondering how to encourage perseverance, it starts with recognizing it in everyday actions.
Teaching Perseverance in the Classroom
Let’s break it down into three pillars: mindset, motivation, and emotional support.
1. Reframe the Mindset
Kids sometimes believe that struggling means they’re not smart or capable. We can gently shift that mindset by introducing:
- Growth mindset language: “You can’t do it… yet.”
- Stories of perseverance: Share examples of perseverance for students, like athletes, artists, or inventors who failed before succeeding.
- Personal reflections: Talk about a time you struggled and what helped you keep going.
Encourage students to see challenges as part of the journey, not the end of it.
2. Coach the Emotion, Not Just the Behavior
When a student says, “I can’t,” don’t just cheer them on—listen. Name what they’re feeling. “It sounds like you’re frustrated because it’s not working yet.” This creates space for them to process their emotions and find their footing again.
Soul Shoppe’s Tools of the Heart program gives students the language and self-awareness to pause, breathe, and regroup—essential steps for building resilience.
3. Set Small Goals
Big goals can feel overwhelming. Help students break them into steps:
- “What’s one thing you can try next?”
- “Who could you ask for help?”
- “Let’s focus on effort, not perfection.”
This builds momentum—and that’s what perseverance thrives on.
Activities on Perseverance
Looking to bring these ideas to life? Try one of these teaching perseverance activities designed for elementary students:
Perseverance Circle Time
Ask students to share a time when something was hard but they didn’t give up. Then reflect:
- What helped them keep going?
- How did it feel to succeed (or try again)?
This builds empathy and normalizes struggle as part of learning.
Puzzle Challenge
Break students into small groups and give each team a puzzle or challenge that’s just beyond easy. Let them practice patience, teamwork, and asking for help. This is one of our favorite perseverance team-building activities.
Games That Teach Perseverance
Try conflict resolution and perseverance games for kids that include trial and error, like timed building challenges or partner trust activities. Celebrate the process, not just the result.
How to Build Perseverance Every Day
Here are a few quick practices to weave into your routine:
- Morning mantra: Begin the day with affirmations like “I can do hard things” or “Mistakes help me grow.”
- Perseverance jar: Invite students to write about a time they persevered and read them aloud weekly.
- Anchor words: Let students create cards with reminders like “breathe,” “try again,” or “ask for help.”
These small habits reinforce a powerful message: We believe in you—even when things get tough.
Teaching Perseverance – Social Emotional Learning Brings Real Growth
Perseverance isn’t just about pushing through. It’s about knowing when to pause, how to ask for support, and how to keep going when things feel hard.
Soul Shoppe’s Elementary SEL curriculum, including Tools of the Heart, teaches students to name their feelings, find calm, and connect with their inner strength. That’s the heart of teaching perseverance to kids.
Keep the Door Open
When a child wants to give up, our first job isn’t to make them keep going—it’s to remind them they’re not alone. Then, step by step, we can help them rediscover their courage.
Whether through words of encouragement, classroom routines, or SEL strategies, teaching perseverance is one of the greatest gifts we can give. And it starts with one simple truth:
You don’t have to get it perfect. You just have to keep going.
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Conflict is a natural part of growing up. Whether it’s a disagreement over sharing supplies, a miscommunication on the playground, or a clash of opinions in group work, students are constantly navigating relationships. But with the right tools and guidance, these moments can become powerful learning opportunities.
This is where educators and school staff play a vital role. Instead of stepping in to fix every disagreement, we can give students the tools to solve conflicts independently—building their confidence, empathy, and problem-solving skills.
In this article, we’ll explore practical, age-appropriate conflict resolution strategies for students, how adults can support without taking over, and how programs like Soul Shoppe’s Peacemaker Training, Tools of the Heart, and Planet Responsibility equip students to build peaceful, connected communities.
Why Conflict Resolution Belongs in the Classroom
When students learn to manage conflict early on, they’re not just solving problems—they’re developing lifelong skills:
✔ Listening with empathy
✔ Communicating clearly and kindly
✔ Taking responsibility for their actions
✔ Finding creative, respectful solutions
By nurturing conflict resolution in educational settings, we create classrooms that are not only calmer but also more connected.
Conflict Resolution Strategies for Elementary Students
Let’s walk through student-centered strategies that give kids the tools to navigate tough moments themselves, with adult support when needed.
1. Use a Step-by-Step Process
Teach students a simple, repeatable method for working through problems. Soul Shoppe’s “I Message” framework or Peace Path tools are great examples:
- Stop and breathe
- Say how you feel
- Say what happened (without blame)
- Listen to the other person
- Work together on a solution
This process is at the heart of our Peacemaker Training—a program that helps students take on leadership roles in resolving peer conflicts, with guidance from trusted adults.
2. Practice with Conflict Resolution Scenarios for Students
Role-playing is a powerful way to prepare students for real-life challenges. Try these conflict resolution scenarios for students:
- “Your partner didn’t do their part in a group project—what do you do?”
- “Two friends both want the same ball during recess—how can they solve it together?”
- “Someone made a joke that hurt your feelings—how can you tell them in a kind way?”
Walk through these with the class or in small groups, using role-play and reflection to build empathy.
3. Empower Students with a Mediation Role
Student conflict resolution becomes even more effective when students lead it. That’s why we train Peacemakers—students who learn how to teach mediation, guide peers through conflict, and model respectful behavior.
With guidance, students can even complete a student mediation agreement outlining what happened, what each person needs, and what steps they’ll take moving forward.
How Adults Can Support Without Taking Over
When students are in conflict, adults may feel the urge to step in and fix the problem. But with support and guidance, students can often work it out themselves. Here’s how to help:
Coach, Don’t Control
Instead of directing the conversation, ask questions that guide students toward solutions:
- “What do you think happened?”
- “How do you think they felt?”
- “What would be a fair way to move forward?”
Stay Neutral and Present
Avoid taking sides or assigning blame. Be a calm, supportive presence that reassures students they are safe and capable of working through the issue.
Model Reflective Listening
Demonstrate how to truly listen by reflecting what a student says:
- “So you’re feeling frustrated because…”
- “You wanted to play, but they didn’t hear you?”
Modeling these skills teaches students how to do the same for each other.
Integrating Conflict Resolution into Daily Classroom Life
Teaching classroom conflict resolution isn’t a one-time lesson—it’s a culture. Build it into your daily rhythm with these ideas:
Start the Day with a Check-In
Use feelings charts or morning circles to help students share what they’re carrying into the day.
Create a Classroom Agreement Together
Let students co-create the classroom norms. This builds ownership and a shared commitment to kindness and responsibility.
Play Conflict Resolution Games
Games help students build skills in a fun and low-pressure way. Try some conflict resolution games for kids—designed to encourage empathy, problem-solving, and collaboration.
Tools and Programs that Support Student-Led Conflict Resolution
Soul Shoppe offers structured programs that help embed conflict resolution strategies for students in a sustainable and meaningful way:
Peacemaker Training
Peacemaker Training is a whole-school model for how to resolve conflict in school—empowering students as peer mediators and providing staff with tools to guide peaceful resolution.
Tools of the Heart
Tools of the Heart is a social-emotional learning curriculum that teaches emotional awareness, communication skills, and self-regulation—all foundational for conflict management in schools.
Planet Responsibility
Planet Responsibility gives students a framework for understanding how their actions affect others and how they can take ownership and make things right. It’s about turning mistakes into meaningful growth.
Let Students Lead with Our Support
Conflict isn’t something to avoid—it’s something to grow through. With the right structures in place, strategies to resolve conflict, and trusted adults modeling compassion and respect, students become confident in their ability to navigate challenges.
By teaching conflict resolution strategies for students, we’re not just creating more peaceful classrooms—we’re shaping compassionate, courageous leaders.
Let’s give them the tools—and the trust—to lead the way. To learn more, contact us!
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The world can sometimes feel overwhelming—not just for adults, but especially for children. Whether it’s a natural disaster on the news, a loss in the family, or big changes at home, kids rely on the adults around them to help make sense of life’s hardest moments.
Talking about these experiences isn’t always easy, but when we hold space for honest, age-appropriate conversations, we give children a chance to feel heard, grounded, and supported.
At Soul Shoppe, we believe every moment is an opportunity for connection. This includes the tough ones. In this article, we’ll share gentle, SEL-informed guidance for how to talk to your child about difficult topics, from natural disasters to grief and beyond.
Why These Conversations Matter
When children face uncertainty or distress and don’t have the language or support to process it, their emotions can build up and show up in unexpected ways, like outbursts, anxiety, or withdrawal.
They may not ask directly, but they are listening. They’re watching how we react and what we say (or don’t say). By being present and honest in a developmentally appropriate way, we model emotional resilience and invite children into safe, supportive conversations.
A Gentle List of Tough Topics to Talk About
Below are some hard topics to talk about that children may experience or hear about in school, at home, or through the media.
- Natural disasters (e.g., earthquakes, wildfires, hurricanes)
- Violence in the news or community
- Death of a pet, loved one, or public figure
- Divorce or separation
- Illness or medical emergencies
- Big changes like moving or changing schools
- Environmental issues (e.g., climate change)
- Global conflict or war
Each of these can prompt big feelings, confusion, and questions, especially when they’re unexpected.
How to Talk to a Child About Difficult Topics
Let’s walk through a few ways to open up these conversations with care and connection.
1. Start with a Check-In
Before diving into any tough topic, create space to see how your child is already feeling. You might say:
- “Have you heard anything about what happened today?”
- “How are you feeling about everything?”
- “I noticed you’ve been quiet lately—want to talk?”
Children may not always have the words, but asking opens the door for connection.
2. Keep Language Clear, Honest, and Age-Appropriate
You don’t have to explain everything, but children do need clarity. Speak truthfully, using simple language that matches their developmental stage.
Example:
- For a natural disaster: “There was a big storm in the city next to us. People are helping to keep everyone safe.”
- For death: “That means their body stopped working, and they won’t come back. It’s okay to feel sad.”
Avoid overcomplicating or minimizing. Honesty, even in small doses, builds trust.
3. Reassure, Without Overpromising
Children want to know: Am I safe? Are the people I love safe?
- Offer comfort with facts: “We’re safe right now.”
- Remind them of the helpers: “There are so many people working to help others.”
And let them know it’s okay to have big feelings: “It’s normal to feel scared or sad about this.”
4. Let Emotions Have Space
Tears, silence, anger—these are all natural responses to stress or grief. Rather than rushing to “fix” the feeling, be a calm presence beside it.
- “It’s okay to cry. I’m here with you.”
- “You don’t have to talk right now. Just know I’m here when you’re ready.”
When navigating children and grief, know that it doesn’t follow a straight line. Some days will be heavy, others lighter. Keep the door open for ongoing conversations.
Examples of Difficult Topics in Real Life—and How to Talk Through Them
Here are a few real-world scenarios with sample language you can adapt:
A Natural Disaster on the News
“Something big happened, and lots of people are working hard to help. It might feel scary, but we’re safe here. Would you like to talk more about it or ask questions?”
When a Pet or Family Member Dies
“[Name] died, and that means we won’t see them again. It’s okay to feel sad or miss them. I miss them too. Want to remember a favorite story together?”
Divorce or Separation
“Things are changing, but what stays the same is how much we both love you. You’re not alone in this—we’ll go through it together.”
These conversations are hard, but they’re also deeply healing.
How Social Emotional Learning Supports Tough Conversations
SEL gives children the tools to name their emotions, regulate their bodies, and connect with empathy—skills that are essential during times of stress or change.
At Soul Shoppe, our social emotional learning programs, like Tools of the Heart, offer age-appropriate activities that help children build inner resilience.
Whether it’s learning to breathe through strong emotions, practicing kindness, or navigating peer conflict, SEL makes space for the kind of emotional growth that supports kids during life’s hardest moments.
Helpful Tips for Grown-Ups Navigating These Topics
Be okay with not having all the answers. Saying, “I don’t know, but we can find out together,” is powerful.
Limit overexposure to media. Curate age-appropriate news and take breaks when needed.
Use art, storytelling, or play to help kids express themselves.
Model emotional regulation. Let them see you take deep breaths, pause, or ask for help.
Check in later. Conversations around childhood stress or grief are ongoing—don’t make it a one-time event.
You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
If a child is dealing with grief, fear, or ongoing distress, it’s okay to seek support.
- Speak with school counselors
- Share grief resources for students
- Reach out to community programs and educators trained in SEL
Even small steps—like a breathing exercise or a reassuring word—can mean everything to a child.
Be the Safe Place
Learning how to talk to your child about difficult topics isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about being the steady, supportive presence children can trust.
By meeting kids with honesty, empathy, and calmness, you show them that even when the world feels big or uncertain, they are not alone.
And in that safe space, healing can begin.
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Anxiety is one of the most common challenges students face, affecting their ability to focus, participate, and thrive in the classroom. Whether it’s test anxiety, social worries, or academic pressures, understanding how to help students with anxiety is essential for educators. By providing the right support, teachers can create a classroom environment that helps students feel safe, empowered, and capable of managing their stress.
This article explores the causes of anxiety in students, the impact of anxiety in the classroom, and practical interventions for students with anxiety that teachers can implement to support their emotional well-being.
Understanding Anxiety in Students
Anxiety in students can manifest in many ways, from physical symptoms like stomachaches to avoidance behaviors such as refusing to participate in class discussions. While occasional nervousness is a natural part of growing up, persistent anxiety can interfere with a child’s ability to learn and engage with their peers.
How Anxiety Affects School Performance
Students with anxiety may struggle with:
✔ Concentration and Memory: Stress can make it difficult to focus on lessons and retain information.
✔ Participation and Engagement: Fear of making mistakes or speaking up in class can lead to avoidance.
✔ Social Interactions: Anxiety can make forming friendships or working in groups overwhelming.
✔ Test Performance: Performance anxiety can cause students to freeze or struggle to demonstrate their knowledge under pressure.
Recognizing these challenges allows teachers to provide helpful resources for students with anxiety and create a supportive learning environment.
Common Causes of Anxiety in Students
Understanding the causes of anxiety in students helps educators anticipate triggers and provide meaningful support. Some of the most common causes include:
- Academic Pressure: High expectations and fear of failure can make students anxious about tests, homework, and class participation.
- Social Anxiety: Worries about fitting in, making friends, or speaking in front of others can be overwhelming.
- Change or Uncertainty: Transitions such as moving to a new school, changing teachers, or adjusting to new routines can cause stress.
- Sensory Overload: Noisy, busy environments can be difficult for students with sensory sensitivities.
- Perfectionism: Some students set extremely high standards for themselves, leading to frustration when they don’t meet their own expectations.
By identifying specific stressors, teachers can implement interventions for students with anxiety that address individual needs.
How Teachers Can Help Students with Anxiety
Educators play a critical role in supporting students with anxiety by fostering a calm, inclusive, and predictable environment. Below are key strategies to help anxious students feel more at ease.
1. Create a Safe and Supportive Classroom Environment
A welcoming classroom helps reduce anxiety in the classroom by making students feel secure and valued. Strategies include:
✔ Consistent Routines: Predictability can ease stress, so establish clear schedules and expectations.
✔ Flexible Seating Options: Let students choose quiet spaces when they need a break.
✔ Encouraging Words: Offer reassurance and positive reinforcement, even for small achievements.
2. Teach Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques
Mindfulness helps students regulate emotions and manage stress. Simple techniques include:
✔ Deep Breathing Exercises: Teach students to take slow, deep breaths when they feel anxious.
✔ The Empty Balloon Exercise: The Empty Balloon guides students through mindful breathing, helping them calm down in moments of stress.
✔ Grounding Activities: Encourage students to focus on their senses (what they see, hear, and feel) to stay present in the moment.
3. Provide Emotional Support and Validation
Students with anxiety need to feel heard and understood. Teachers can:
✔ Check In Regularly: A quick “How are you feeling today?” can help students open up.
✔ Normalize Anxiety: Let students know that it’s okay to feel nervous and that they are not alone.
✔ Offer a Calm-Down Space: Create a designated area where students can take a break when needed.
4. Encourage Positive Self-Talk and Growth Mindset
Help students reframe anxious thoughts with encouraging messages:
🔹 Instead of: “I’ll never get this right.” → Say: “I’m still learning, and I’ll get better with practice.”
🔹 Instead of: “Everyone will laugh if I make a mistake.” → Say: “Everyone makes mistakes. That’s how we learn.”
5. Offer Flexible Participation Options
Some students may feel overwhelmed speaking in front of the class or participating in group activities. Support them by:
✔ Allowing written responses instead of verbal answers.
✔ Pairing them with a trusted friend for partner work.
✔ Giving them the option to present privately or in small groups.
6. Promote Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) Strategies
SEL helps students build confidence, emotional regulation, and resilience. The Tools of the Heart curriculum provides structured lessons that teach students how to recognize, process, and manage emotions effectively.
Interventions for Students with Anxiety
1. Sensory Breaks in the Classroom
Short sensory breaks can help students reset and manage their emotions. These include:
✔ Stretching or movement breaks to release built-up tension.
✔ Fidget tools for students who need to channel nervous energy.
✔ Listening to calming music during quiet work times.
2. Journaling and Expressive Writing
Encourage students to write about their feelings in a journal. Writing helps students:
✔ Process emotions in a safe and private way.
✔ Identify patterns in their anxiety triggers.
✔ Reflect on positive moments and growth.
3. Teaching Emotional Vocabulary
Many students struggle to articulate their emotions. Teach them phrases like:
✔ “I feel nervous because…”
✔ “I need help with…”
✔ “When I get anxious, it helps me to…”
The more students can express their emotions, the easier it is to find solutions.
4. Peer Support and Classroom Community
Encourage peer support by:
✔ Practicing kindness and empathy in classroom discussions.
✔ Using buddy systems to help students feel included.
✔ Reinforcing the idea that classmates should support, not judge, each other.
Resources for Students with Anxiety
Helping students with anxiety requires ongoing support and accessible resources. Teachers can integrate structured programs like:
- The Empty Balloon: A guided breathing tool that helps students self-regulate.
- Tools of the Heart: A social-emotional learning curriculum that builds confidence and emotional resilience.
- Classroom Relaxation Stations: Create a space with calming tools like stress balls, quiet reading materials, or soft lighting.
- Mindfulness Apps for Kids: Apps like Headspace for Kids or Calm can provide guided relaxation exercises.
By providing these resources for students with anxiety, teachers create a more inclusive and supportive classroom environment.
Supporting Students with Anxiety in the Classroom
Understanding how to help students with anxiety goes beyond academic support—it’s about creating a safe space where students feel heard, valued, and equipped to manage their emotions. By implementing interventions for students with anxiety, offering SEL resources, and building strong teacher-student relationships, educators can help students develop resilience and confidence.
Want to bring structured emotional learning to your classroom? Explore Tools of the Heart for evidence-based strategies to support students with anxiety in meaningful ways.
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Developing a growth mindset in the classroom is essential for helping students embrace challenges, persist through difficulties, and see mistakes as learning opportunities. When students believe their abilities can improve with effort and practice, they develop resilience and motivation that extend beyond academics into all areas of life.
By integrating social-emotional learning (SEL) and teaching growth mindset, educators can empower students to develop the confidence and problem-solving skills they need to navigate obstacles with a positive outlook. In this article, we’ll explore growth mindset strategies for students, classroom growth mindset activities, and ways teachers can create a growth mindset for the classroom through structured SEL practices.
What Is a Growth Mindset?
A growth mindset for students is the belief that intelligence, abilities, and talents can develop through effort, persistence, and learning from mistakes. This contrasts with a fixed mindset, where students believe their intelligence and skills are unchangeable.
Growth Mindset Definition for Students
A simple way to explain growth mindset in schools to young learners is:
“When you practice and keep trying, your brain gets stronger, and you get better at things over time!”
Why Is Growth Mindset Important for Students?
Students with a growth mindset in education:
✔ Take on Challenges: They see obstacles as growth opportunities rather than roadblocks.
✔ Develop Resilience: They bounce back from misses and keep trying despite setbacks.
✔ Stay Motivated: They understand that effort leads to improvement.
✔ Enjoy Learning: They are more open to feedback and new learning experiences.
By fostering a growth mindset for students, teachers help them develop the perseverance they need for both academic and personal success.
The Connection Between Growth Mindset and SEL
SEL (Social-Emotional Learning) plays a critical role in growth mindset in the classroom. SEL teaches students essential life skills, including emotional regulation, self-awareness, and perseverance—traits that directly support teaching growth mindset.
Through structured SEL programs like Tools of the Heart, students learn to:
- Recognize and manage emotions when facing challenges.
- Develop self-confidence in their ability to improve and grow.
- Practice empathy in learning environments by encouraging peers and embracing collaborative problem-solving.
By integrating SEL principles into growth mindset classroom activities, teachers create a supportive space where students feel safe to take risks, learn from mistakes, and push beyond their comfort zones.
Growth Mindset Strategies for Students
1. Encourage the Power of “Yet”
Students often say, “I can’t do this,” but adding “yet” transforms their mindset:
🔹 “I can’t do this… yet.”
🔹 “I don’t understand… yet.”
This small change shifts their thinking toward progress rather than limitation.
2. Reframe Mistakes as Learning Opportunities
Instead of leaning into fears of failure, students should see mistakes as part of the learning process. Teachers can:
✔ Share personal stories about overcoming challenges.
✔ Celebrate mistakes as evidence of effort and growth.
✔ Encourage reflection by asking students what they learned from their struggles.
3. Praise Effort, Not Just Results
Rather than saying, “You’re so smart!”, focus on effort-driven praise:
🔹 “I love how you kept trying, even when it was hard!”
🔹 “That was a great strategy—you’re improving because of your practice.”
This reinforces a growth mindset for the classroom by highlighting persistence over natural ability.
4. Use Growth Mindset Language
Help students develop a strong growth mindset in education by modeling positive self-talk:
- Instead of: “This is hard.” → Say: “This will take time and practice.”
- Instead of: “I made a mistake.” → Say: “Mistakes help me learn.”
- Instead of: “I’ll never get this.” → Say: “I can improve with effort.”
Language shapes mindset, and consistent reinforcement makes a lasting impact.
Growth Mindset Classroom Activities
1. The Growth Mindset Journal
Encourage students to keep a journal where they:
✔ Write about a challenge they faced and how they handled it.
✔ Reflect on what they learned from a mistake.
✔ Set personal learning goals and track their progress.
This simple activity builds self-awareness and perseverance.
2. Brainstorm “Famous People Who Succeeded With Challenges”
Show students growth mindset examples by discussing people who faced setbacks before succeeding. Examples include:
- Thomas Edison (tried and missed 1,000+ times before inventing the lightbulb).
- Michael Jordan (was cut from his high school basketball team).
- J.K. Rowling (her book was rejected by 12 publishers).
Discuss how these individuals embraced challenges, persisted, and ultimately achieved success.
3. The Growth Mindset Challenge Board
Create a classroom board with weekly challenges that encourage effort and persistence, such as:
✔ “Try something new and share what you learned.”
✔ “Work on a skill you struggle with for 10 minutes a day.”
✔ “Help a friend when they feel stuck.”
This activity promotes growth mindset strategies for students while reinforcing peer encouragement.
4. Fixed vs. Growth Mindset Sort
Provide students with statements and have them sort them into “Fixed Mindset” vs. “Growth Mindset” categories. Examples:
✔ “If I’m not good at something, I should stop trying.” (Fixed)
✔ “With practice, I can improve at anything.” (Growth)
This helps students recognize unhelpful thought patterns and shift toward a growth mindset in schools.
Creating a Growth Mindset Classroom Environment
Incorporating a growth mindset for the classroom goes beyond activities—it’s about creating a culture that values persistence, curiosity, and resilience.
Classroom Growth Mindset Tips
- Model Growth Mindset Behavior – Share your own learning experiences and struggles.
- Normalize Effort Over Perfection – Encourage students to try their best rather than fear failure.
- Celebrate Small Wins – Acknowledge incremental progress in learning.
- Encourage Peer Support – Teach students to uplift and encourage each other when facing challenges.
By consistently reinforcing these principles, teachers can create a classroom growth mindset that helps students develop lifelong learning habits.
Empower Your Students with a Growth Mindset
Developing a growth mindset in the classroom transforms the way students approach challenges and setbacks. By integrating growth mindset strategies for students alongside SEL principles, educators help students cultivate perseverance, resilience, and confidence in their ability to grow.
Looking for more structured SEL resources? Check out Soul Shoppe’s Tools of the Heart Online Course for interactive lessons that support student emotional growth and resilience.
Together, let’s create classrooms where students believe in their potential and embrace every challenge as a stepping stone to success!
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